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Depression Therapy in Toms River

Depression After Divorce

A major change like divorce can trigger depression, no matter how healthy of a divorce you had. If you’re struggling with depression after a divorce, Lifebulb’s Toms River therapists can help.

I’m Still Sad After My Divorce

Toms River is known to be a family town. The type of place you put roots down with someone. However, families look different for every person, and for many people, divorce is a part of that picture.

Over half of marriages end in divorce. Whether your divorce was amicable, mutual, healthy, toxic, a nightmare, something you’d rather forget, or a peaceful parting between two friends, depression can still find you after the final papers have been signed.

The end of anything, whether it was good, bad, or something in between, is sad. It can be hard for the brain and body to adjust to your new reality as an unmarried person. That, coupled with the stress of divorce and coparenting, means depression is all too common an experience.

When left alone, depression after a divorce can solidify into a sludge that’s hard to scrape from your life. Treating depression symptoms as they come and taking a proactive approach to your mental health after a divorce is important, and a Toms River depression therapist is just the person to help.

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How Common Is Depression after Divorce?

Feeling depressed after a divorce is a common experience. Any major change can trigger depression. After a divorce, you might experience depression symptoms such as:
  • Persistent sadness, emptiness, or low mood
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed (anhedonia)
  • Changes in appetite or weight (increase or decrease)
  • Sleep disturbances (insomnia or oversleeping)
  • Fatigue or low energy
  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  • Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
  • Irritability or restlessness
  • Slowed thoughts or physical movements
  • Recurrent thoughts of death or suicide
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Divorce Depression Therapists in Toms River

Divorce is the end of one story and the start of another. This transition can be difficult, and depression is common. If you’re feeling down, sad, or numb, let our Toms River Depression therapists help.

Andrew Blancotherapist

Andrew Blanco

LCSW

Andrew has been a therapist for nearly two decades, specializing in family counseling and individual counseling across all ages. After graduating from New York University in 2008, he began his clini...

Adolescents 13-17 Adults 18-64 Adults 65+ Children 6-12 Couples Family
Gina Coupetherapist

Gina Coupe

LCSW

Gina is a licensed clinical social worker with an MSW from Columbia University School of Social Work. Her practice fosters the idea that all individuals have the ability to heal the self through res...

Adults 18-64 Adults 65+ Couples Family
Aimee Grosstherapist

Aimee Gross

LCSW

You don’t have to face life’s challenges alone. Aimee is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience helping adults find calm, clarity, and confidence through times of stre...

Adults 18-64
Meredith Wymertherapist

Meredith Wymer

Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner

Meredith Wymer is a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner providing medication management across the lifespan. In addition to her current work in the outpatient mental health se...

Adolescents 13-17 Adults 18-64 Adults 65+ Children 6-12
Nicole Bergmantherapist

Nicole Bergman

Supervisee in Social Work

I’m Nicole, a Licensed Social Worker (LSW) with a Master of Social Work (MSW). My practice is grounded in creating a supportive, non‑judgmental space where clients feel heard, respected, and empow...

Adolescents 13-17 Adults 18-64 Adults 65+ Children 6-12
Kayla Blumettitherapist

Kayla Blumetti

Supervisee in Social Work

Kayla Blumetti is dedicated to supporting individuals as they take the brave step of reaching out for help. She is deeply committed to creating a therapeutic space where clients feel truly seen, heard...

Adolescents 13-17 Adults 18-64 Adults 65+

You Need Time to Grieve

Divorce is a loss of something, no matter how bitter or sweet the loss was. Your brain and body need the time and space to grieve and process those difficult emotions, which can include:

Denial

Usually happens before the divorce papers are served, many people find themselves in denial that their relationship is over long before either of them say “This isn’t working.”

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Anger

Anger can quickly make a divorce and post-divorce relationships tricky. You’ve spent years of your life with this person, and now that period of your life is ending. It makes sense to be angry, but lashing out will only make things worse. Divorce recovery and divorce therapy can help you manage difficult emotions while maintaining peace.

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Bargaining

Some people turn to bargaining with themselves or their partner. “We’ll go to couples counseling,” or “We’ll change, and this time it’ll work.” Couples counseling can save many relationships from divorce, but divorce isn’t always the bad guy. A divorce counselor can help you determine what the right path forward is for you.

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Depression

Depression is the stage many people get stuck at. They push down their feelings and ignore the lingering sadness after a divorce. There’s no one “right” way to feel after your divorce. Shaming yourself for feeling something will only make that feeling worse. Processing it is how we can move forward.

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Acceptance

Acceptance is possible for anyone going through a divorce. By making space to process the experiences, thoughts, and emotions you went through and committing to new, healthy habits, acceptance and peace are the final steps for those going through a divorce.

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How to Treat Depression After Divorce

Situational depression, like divorce depression, is very treatable, especially if you talk to a therapist early. A depression therapist might use these evidence-proven techniques:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Depression After a Divorce

CBT is considered the gold standard for treating depression. Our Toms River therapists have used CBT to help many clients identify and deconstruct negative thought patterns that can keep people in a state of depression after divorce. CBT is also useful at re-building self-esteem and adapting to a new, single life. 

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Mindfulness to Combat Depression

Mindfulness-based therapy has been proven highly effective at treating depression. During a divorce, you probably didn’t have a lot of time or energy to check in with yourself. Mindfulness isn’t just meditation; it’s about bringing your awareness to the present moment and to yourself. This practice can have enormous benefits for your mental and physical health.

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Living By Your Values

ACT therapy is about choosing to act based on our values and not our knee-jerk emotional response. It can help you rebuild a routine, hobbies, and lifestyle after a divorce. For those seeking a fresh start after their divorce, ACT can help you build a foundation that is healthy and value-centric.

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Therapy for Severe Depression

Divorce can be a trigger for severe depression. If your depression is causing you to self-isolate, engage in self-destructive behaviors, or use alcohol to numb your emotions, you might have severe depression. In this case, DBT is a good treatment option for you. Talk to a Toms River depression therapist about how DBT can help you.

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If you don’t feel like choosing a therapist, give us a call, and we’ll match you with an Ocean County therapist that fits your needs. 

 Lifebulb Counseling & Therapy adheres to all HIPAA policies. This means your personal information will be protected throughout every step of the process: from requesting a session, to your first appointment, all the way to when you decide to stop therapy. 

Lifebulb was built on the core belief that good therapists provide good therapy, and that in order for a therapist to be good, they need to feel supported. We prioritize our therapists’ wellness so that they can give you their full attention. No burnout, no counting the minutes till the end of the session, no racing to meet quotas, no wasting time wrestling with insurance panels. 

The result? More time, more energy, and more joy they get to put towards what they do best: helping you!

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